Thank you Shannon for these words of wisdom from your blog:

on a plate of 1-10 how often does sex hurt the start time ?
by Shannon Boh

I bear you are talking about bottoming for the start time.

for me it was around 6 out of 10

but…

This is a very difficult question to do because it is different for everyone. My own experience was that there was some pain but it was well out weighed by the pleasure.

It was with somebody I loved at the clock and he was very careful to make certain that we went at a step that was ok for me. The unanimous experience for me was a very dear one.

Some guys recommend that you go out, get drunk, sniff some poppers and only go for it but a drunken night out fumbling with a random is likely going to end in disaster. Losing your virginity has far greater consequences than merely getting your cherry popped for the start time.

You must be inclined to cope with the emotional consequences as well. A bad experience will force your sex life in ways you may not yet understand.

If you are worried then go slow use dozens of lube and use a bit first (fingers and sex toys). Lastly make certain you do it at a clock and with somebody you are easy with.

I don’t need to frighten you. In fact I wish you to recognise the opposite.

Sex is awesome.

Just make certain that you do it when, how, and with who you want.

So a long winded answer to a little question but important to say nonetheless.