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Apr 6, 2009 Author: Vipgay | Filed under: gay

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I give now caught up on the final three movies I saw. Somehow, I managed to get a bit behind in my reviews.
Not certain what I will see this week with school holidays approaching the movies on offer all go to a G or PG rating with some great material for kids, but not for me.
And also I hate going into a cinema filled with kids on school holidays. Being a school teacher for 33 years earlier I retired has that effect.
Now if it was a field filled with 18 – 30 year old guys, it would be lots better, but I question if I would see lots of the movie! And I would take awful eye-strain!
Must get support to some eye-candy blogs for you guys or you leave all be deserting me.
Here’s a few cute ones to admire.

Thanks to wetboxersguy at his blog Speedo Junkie for these pics. He has a large choice of hot guys in speedos, check them out.

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AM I WEIRD?

Feb 4, 2009 Author: Vipgay | Filed under: gay
I remember I must be weird.
I wasted some time yesterday by visiting XTUBE, the porn equivalent of youtube and of course, chose the gay option. There I found tons of free videos of guys engaged in various sex acts, mostly sucking and fucking. I have seen the odd gay porn movie over the years, purely for personal research of course, but I have never really enjoyed them. The xtube videos I enjoyed even less.
To see two perfectly good look and healthy guys together, one fucking the other, for what seemed like hours, is only boring. Let’s face it, the act of anal intercourse is a fairly basic mechanical activity no matter what camera angle you choose. Unless of course, I am one of the participants, different subject entirely.

What I did enjoy was when the camera went to the guy’s faces to display their emotions, that was stimulating. But still more stimulating, and this I live because I have long enjoyed it, is videos of two guys kissing. If you have followed this blog from the root then you will have seen a bit of pics and a bit of videos of guys kissing each other.
Maybe because I am a romantic, maybe its because I enjoy kissing my boy-friend, but such images arouse me more than any others.
There must be guys out there who enjoy long drawn out fucking sessions on video because there are literally thousands to buy or pay for on the internet. Or do guys fast-forward through the ass to get to the cum-shot and then restate the kissing scenes like I do?
Am I weird?

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STRAIGHT ACTING

Jan 29, 2009 Author: Vipgay | Filed under: gay

STRAIGHT ACTING

I have been reading a LiveJournal by superbluewren who has written some real thought provoking blogs about “being gay”. Facism within the gay community was a mind blowing concept but the one that always gets me going is “straight acting”. What the sin is straight acting? What for that thing is gay acting?
superbluewren says:
I now recognize that I am ‘gay enough’. I am gay enough for me, gay enough for my man, and gay enough for my friends. I will never feel well in drag, and I will probably always look ’straight acting’. But I am not ‘acting’. I am just being me. Take it or give it, boys!That’s it for me as well. I act like me. That I find to be gay has aught to do with how I act (except how I do in the chamber with my man, but that’s my business).

I’m damned sure Barry Humphries isn’t gay! Is he straight acting??

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How to Lose Belly Fat

Jan 6, 2009 Author: Vipgay | Filed under: gay
How would you wish to go from this:

to this using the tips and advice below.


wikiHow How to Lose Belly Fat
How to Lose Belly Fat
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There are a lot of gimmicks and commercials flying around about how to get rid of that pesky, unflattering belly fat. While there’s no “magic bullet” that will target abdominal fat in particular, this article will explain what causes an expanding waistline, and how you can cause the excess baggage go away.
Steps

  1. Understand the risks associated with belly fat. Belly fat is joined with cardiovascular disease, diabetes, and cancer. Specifically it’s the deepest level of belly fat–the fat you can’t see or grab–that poses health risks. That’s because these “visceral” fat cells actually produce hormones and other substances that can impact your health (e.g. increased insulin resistance and/or breast cancer risk).[1] The fact that they’re located right next to and in between organs in your abdominal cavity doesn’t help. For example, fat next to the liver drains into it, causing a fatty liver, which is a risk factor for insulin resistance, setting the point for Type 2 diabetes.[2]
  2. Wrap a tape measure around your waist at the degree of your navel. If you’re a mortal of healthy weight, a measure of more than 35 inches (women) and 40 inches (men) is considered to be unhealthy.[1][3][2]
  3. Exercise for weight loss. Aerobic exercise will facilitate fat loss all over your body, including your belly. You can’t “spot-burn” belly fat, but it’s usually the foremost to cut off when you exercise, regardless of your body shape.[3][1] Just be certain that you concentrate on calorie-burning exercises, rather than sit-ups or crunches. If your abdominal muscles are covered in fat, no strengthening of those muscles is loss to transfer that. Aerobic exercise is key.[3]
    • An extra benefit is that exercise reduces tension and insulin levels, which reduces the front of cortisol, a hormone that leads to more belly fat deposits.[4]

  4. Change your diet. Unless you limit your calorie intake, you’re not going to lose belly fat. There’s no “magic bullet” that will target belly fat. There are some tactics that have might help do away with belly fat faster, but just when you’ve already consistently restricted your calorie intake. For example, eating an avocado after eating an entire bag of chips isn’t going to assist you get rid of belly fat–in fact, it’ll probably attain the problem worse!
    • Switch out refined grains for whole grains. In a scientific study, people who ate all whole grains (in addition to 5 servings of fruits and vegetables, three servings of low-fat dairy, and two servings of lean meat, fish, or poultry) lost more belly fat than another group that ate the same diet, but with all refined grains. A diet rich in whole grains changes the glucose and insulin response in your body, which hastens the melting of fat, and visceral fat, that deep level of fat, is easier for your torso to glow than the subcutaneous fat under your skin (the fat that you can see and grab).[3]
    • Studies suggests that a diet with a higher proportion of monounsaturated fats (avocados, nuts, seeds, soybeans, chocolate) can keep the collection of both types of belly fat.[5] Some experts argue, though, that it’s not that these fats specifically target abdominal fat in any way; it’s that anyone will likely lose weight on a lower calorie diet (regardless of where those calories come from) and as discussed earlier, belly fat is normally the initiative to go.[3]
    • Trans fats (in margarines, crackers, cookies–anything made with partially hydrogenated oils) seem to answer in more fat being deposited in the abdomen, so avoid these as often as you can.[4]
    • Soluble fiber (apples, oats, cherries) lowers insulin levels, which, as mentioned earlier, can subdue the front of cortisol.[4]

Tips

  • The way your body distributes fat is largely beyond your control (heredity, menopause). What is inside your master is your point of body fat overall–if you hold that low, it won’t really matter where the fat goes, because there won’t be much fat to stick in the foremost place.
  • Many women start gaining more weight in their belly as they get older, especially after menopause. The body fat distribution changes–less fat goes to your arms, legs and hips, and more of it goes to your midsection. Some people even feel their waistline widening while their weight remains the same![1] Nonetheless, the above steps will serve to do away with belly fat.

Warnings

  • Be careful when restricting your calorie intake – being underweight is only as grave as being overweight.
  • Doing only sit-ups and crunches can really make the appearing of more belly fat, as the ab muscles grow in size and shape, they will drive out against the fat, making it seem bigger and thicker. As above, all-over aerobic exercise is better than focused, spot exercise.

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Sources and Citations

  1. 1.0 1.1 1.2 1.3 http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/belly-fat/WO00128
  2. 2.0 2.1 http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=96922213
  3. 3.0 3.1 3.2 3.3 3.4 http://www.webmd.com/diet/features/the-truth-about-belly-fat
  4. 4.0 4.1 4.2 http://www.newsweek.com/id/168129/page/2
  5. http://health.msn.com/weight-loss/articlepage.aspx?cp-documentid=100185417

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HAPPY NEW YEAR

Jan 1, 2009 Author: Vipgay | Filed under: gay
Happy New Year to all my readers.
I trust 2009 will be all you wish it be and more. May your lover be more loving, your trust account grow and your friends multiply. May your health allow you to be a good and active living and your work commitments be less to make you more time to company and love life with your loved ones.
For me, 2009 is the start sentence in my life (57 years) that I get the class with a man who loves me; a man who is the most wonderful, most caring, most understanding, most healthy and the most drop-dead handsome person I get always known. AND I know HIM and he loves ME! 
I want I could indicate you his pictures but he is likewise a very shy man ( not that that is a bad thing, indeed it is another sweet piece of his nature).

Mr Sexy above wishes you a Glad New Year also.

Author: Earwig’s Thoughts

For my B/F – The Scary Handsome Man

Nov 11, 2008 Author: Vipgay | Filed under: gay
No New Year’s Day to celebrate
No chocolate covered candy hearts to throw away
No maiden of spring
No call to sing
In fact here’s just another ordinary day
No April rain
No flowers bloom
No wedding Saturday within the month of June
But what it is, is something true
Made up of these three words that I must say to you
I simply called to say I know you
I merely called to say how often I care
I merely called to say I know you
And I think it from the bed of my heart
With thanks to Bodhi of Tres Fab Sweetie! for this posting.

Author: Earwig’s Thoughts

Further to MY WEEK ending 9/11/2008

Nov 10, 2008 Author: Vipgay | Filed under: gay
The week was too difficult in that I seemed to drop a big mass of my sentence on the ring with some of my dear friends attempting to aid them through some low spots in their lives. I know these friends dearly and would do anything to assist them.
I mind to their problems and I reflect back to them the issues they have trying to read them that someone cares, someone understands what they are passing through and serve them take some decisions. I’m not a trained counsellor but I get concluded the days seemed to have spent a lot of time counselling others. My best trait I find is my power to listen, listen actively and be concerned in them and their concerns. Sometimes I am able to provide advice but generally I merely hint to them to go with their gut feelings, with their hearts and recite them that I will be there for them should “the wheels come off” and things go pear-shaped.
However, it is very neat to describe that on Sunday one of these friends is now in a very good place – his “acquaintance” and he are now in a relationship. This had eluded him so for long and his spirit was longing for some commitment from this friend, and on Sunday that commitment came. I am so pleased for him.

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MY WEEK – ending Saturday 8 November 2008

Nov 9, 2008 Author: Vipgay | Filed under: gay


It has been a week since I last posted a blog. The grounds being I hold not made the clock in a very hectic week and at times, stressful. Why hectic and stressful? Let me assure you.

It has been stressful because of my membership of “Get Out Penrith”, a radical in facebook, that was started with the aim of providing activities for gay and lesbian people of all ages, to get out of their homes, away from their computers and contact people at enjoyable activities.
One of the activities was a regular Wednesday night movie night. I would break out the movies for the upcoming week, select a movie suitable for our membership, and email the details along with a little review to the group who would put the details on the websites of the formation and take an invitation to all members of the group.
This was working well, although the numbers attending varied considerably from only one (me) to 6-8. It was only early years and regular events take quite a spell to make up patronage. One-off events like a dinner were much better attended.
However, problems with the day of the week chosen (Tuesday may have been better as Hoyts have tight-arse Tuesday) and that a rival activity for the Wednesday evening, a trivia night hosted by Portia Turbo at a local hotel, occurred.
Then it was distinct to miss the last Wednesday night movie, they did not order me, just didn’t post the review, instead offered invitations to all members for the trivia night. A series of emails ensued that through misunderstandings and personal concerns on an unconnected topic have left it all in a complete mess for me. It is probably best that I bow out of the radical and let the organisers get on with the project of providing activities for gay and lesbian people in the area.
On a much happier note, my boy friend, the really liberal man, and I had a wonderful Tuesday together. We connected on every possible level. He is so mature, so interesting because of his high intelligence (not a nerd), our conversation is unstable and covers a lot of topics. We share so many interests not least an enjoyment of variation and cricket.
If somebody had said, describe to me your perfect man, it would be him. He is masculine, yet loving and tender, he is solid yet fresh and gentle, he is fresh and smart, and at the same time funny and witty; and he is so so so good looking. Every time I feel at him, smile at him, I run into his beautiful eyes. He is so modest, he denies his beauty but he could adorn the cat-walks of any city in the world, his side and body could be the back page on a hundred different magazines from Vogue, Men’s Health, DNA to Time.
What I most enjoy is that I have fallen deeply in bed with him. I wish to call his key from the highest rooftops for all to learn that I know him so much, but spirit is too complex for that. Instead I bear to assure you, dear blog reader everything except the details that might discover his individuality and so you could get your conclusion about his beauty, and so check with me.
I still wonder why he chose me when he could have had thousands of others much better look than me, far more healthy than me, and far, far better lover than me.
Tuesday was fantastic but I had to delay until Friday evening for our next “date”. Friday evening we went to Coogee for a fine Italian dinner, then we walked on the beach. It was raining very softly but it mattered not as we held hands as we walked and kissed each other firstly so gently then more romantically as the waves crashed on the rock beneath us. Neither of us wanted to take home.
We do continue in touch via the web and here web-cams are wonderful so that we can see each other  (no funny stuff though, our relationship is built on our minds and our bodies as a total, sex does represent an important role, but our relationship isn’t built on sex, so no motivation for cybersex).
He has made my spirit so much more fulfilling, and I am always so happy. I would do anything for this man, he simply has to ask.
A week to remember!

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Public Displays of Affection

Nov 1, 2008 Author: Vipgay | Filed under: gay
Last night (Friday 31 October 2008) I had the joy to see one of the leave to Sydney shows of Billy Elliot. I too had the joy of sitting quite near to four very evidently gay men, aged in their mid-thirties. What also was evident was that they were two couples. The couple closest to me were quite clear in bed with each other as good as being very easy with their sexuality.
Before, during and later the point they displayed open affection for each other and it made my affection both happy and sad. Throughout the point they either held hands or held each other’s leg, often caressing the leg. They kissed on occasion, mostly each time they sat down. They exchanged long loving looks as good as sweet glances, looking deep into their partner’s eyes every time a consultation to homosexuality occurred on stage.
All of this was so natural, so easy, so heart-warming that I did not see any other audience member also sitting near them show any acknowledgment of these guy’s behaviour, either convinced or negative.
Now don’t get me wrong, I didn’t drop the evening just watching these guys, I saw the whole show on present and had a grand time, but the snatches of glances I took in their direction allowed me to see this public display.
I felt both wonder and jealousy for them. Admiration in that they were so natural, so un-affected by their affection but at the same time, jealous, that I wasn’t at the evidence with my boy friend and that even if I had I very much doubt he would have been as willing as these guys to testify in public the feelings we carry in private.

My boy friend is a very private man who has not revealed his sexuality to his family, his friends or his work/uni colleagues and in this view is just like me. We both, however, operate in a second world where other friends share in our joy of our sexuality. In private, my boy friend has no problem displaying his heart of me, and also our kissing, caressing, long lingering looks and close physical contact are all that I care for and more. Our love-making is sheer bliss.
A spell ago, the guys in the field would have received a 9 or a 10 on my plate of just looking, since meeting my boy friend I have had to revise my scale. My boy friend is a full 10, no-one can equate to his good looks; why he isn’t a pattern for Calvin Klein or aussiebum I don’t know; come-on guys, you advertising types are lacking the BEST looking guy in Australia if not the world. So now the guys in the house would have been just a 6 or a 7. Where that leaves Carson Kressley I don’t know; maybe a -2!
My head of form is, how far our company has affected in late years that true love and displays of tenderness in public are not the exclusive right of heterosexual couples, some of whom are pretty disgusting in their displays of heart on public transport, pubic parks, street corners and shopping centres.
We even have homophobic assaults even in such gay-friendly areas like Oxford Street, Darlinghurst and Surry Hills, where I am surely the red-necks come intentionally to assault gay men. Are their cocks that low that they feel threatened by men who are attracted to men? Does the view of two men holding hands receive the like result as the little-finger-wriggle directed to auto-idiots?
I would dearly beloved to declare my boy-friend’s hand as we go shopping, have a warm kiss on the lips when the press takes us, but I am sadly resolved to the fact that that day is about time away. Congratulations to the guys sitting near me at Billy Elliot, may your passion for each other last perpetually and I exhort you to keep your public displays of affection.

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More Kissing 2

Oct 29, 2008 Author: Vipgay | Filed under: gay
Those of you who regularly read my blog would acknowledge that I know to kiss and to be kissed.
For me kissing (making out for you Americans) really sets off the fireworks in my mind and in my shorts. Of course, when I am with my special man and we kiss, this is the ultimate activity to earn every heart in my body tingle with sexual energy before consummating this energy into genital nirvana.

Like most gay guys, I see some pornography, but, to say you the truth, watching some buffed, waxed and tanned porn star spend twenty-five minutes fuck some other buffed, waxed and tanned porn star, is simply plain boring. I keep thinking, “OK, you’re fucking him, let’s see you puff and act on!”.

I get far more sexual enjoyment out of watching a picture like “Shelter” than I do watching “Breakers” or “Men’s Room 3″ (to make but a yoke I have seen recently). This is because there is emotion, a game that is believable, and the kissing is ‘real’. Its probably just me, but I don’t actually want to see a long thick cock pounding some guys arse for what seems like forever. Show them fucking, yeah, I wish to love as often as the next guy and to be fucked too. But I know to see two guys really kissing with emotion, maybe this bores the dirt out of you, but we are all different.

And the better of all, is kissing my special guy and then sharing all that two guys can do together.

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