Reader Responses Here s a fun follow up to How do you excuse your Kink World to your Kink less Friends blog entry from a few years ago Great responses Thanks guys Richard Well let the old man jump in here all of you are good as to the experiences you have had with friends or partners I ve had in the past boyfriends that were not into this and I have made a vow to myself Not to settle in bed with somebody that doesn t share this kind of sexual expression It s too often a portion of me to make it up and having someone you sleep with not part this is but too much to deal with So near of my friends are partly of this scene

ost of the people I play are partly of or desire to be voice of this scene but I m in a quite unique situation owning Mr S as far as who I m running into But what I have found is that rather then trying to explain in words about what this is about if someone has the actual experience of a scene even a modest one they are so in a much better position to maybe understand why we do this to each other and ourselves and expend our money on all the gear It s like anything else it s not in the question alone as to understanding this it s an see that is often deeper then a verbal explanation That doesn t imply you cause to catch your vanilla friend and rough them up but if they express any tendency to wanting to try something that would be the meter to actually show them what this is about Maybe they ll never need to actually do it again but then at least they might take more of a credit guide to judge what they wish or don t like I ve introduced many a first timers to a scene maybe they were off on to me and figured the only way to get to get sex with me was to let me tie them up so they tried something they might not have tried on their own or even with someone else Some found they genuinely wish it and wanted more and some found it wasn t something that worked for them but they now had a better idea what this was about at least a little At Folsom ST Fair it seems most of the people watching the flogging I m doing aren t into this at all and don t understand why someone is getting up on the span to let me get them but they are at the just and watching I possess no thought what they really are thinking when they go house to the suburbs But again like most anything that can be life changing the See of it is worth a lot more then reading about it or just talk about it with someone I too believe that most people who are not into this just think we are hurting each other They don t know about the deeper stuff that can happen besides the obvious physical or sexual stuff they can see The addictive part that makes us keep coming back to this is the property it takes us to The letting go trusting or surrendering if you are bottoming The King rush and Control you feel if you are topping That s the region that is difficult to explain to someone You can t explain how it feels to go surfing if you don t get in the water MunchingZombie What is it about choking down a turd that gets scat fetishists so turned on I don t know And that is what gives them a scat fetish and what keeps me from it Kinks are like spiritual revelations either you take one or you just don t get it BootBrushPup hmm i formerly had to try to explain my BDSM interests to a friend work colleague after she caught me surfing RubberZone in a lunch break DShe had a very hard time understanding why i wanted somebody to injure me and couldn t understand that it s not the pain itself but the dispute and His the power exchange and intense Masculinity and the physical endorphine high i even tried comparing it to her running marathons or acquiring a very intense massage Weirdly the same colleague completely understands my pup identity though Where s that at Posted by Ruff at 11 35 AM Your Reaction nbsp