2) A place you want to travel to: Mykonos.
3) Your favourite place: Beach.
4) Your favourite food: Steak & Kidney Pudding
6) Favourite colour combination: Blue & White
7) Favourite piece of clothing: Speedos
9) Favourite television show: Dr Who
10) First name of your first significant other: James
11) Which town do you live in: Blue Mountains
12) Your screen name/nickname: Earwig
14) Your dream job: Towel Boy for the Sydney Swans
15) The one bad habit you have: Procrastination
16) Worst fear: Spiders
17) Thing you would like to do before you die: Get a permanent boyfriend
18) The first thing you would do/buy if you get $1,000,000: Pay off my debts & my friend’s debts
19) First thing that comes to mind when you think of your significant other: Love
20) What present would you like to buy for your next birthday: HD LCD TV
A friend of mine has offered to do a few articles on Long Term Bondage. Below is the first installation. It’s great!
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How to have a bondage vacation.
By luckiboy
I’ve traveled more than half a dozen times for multi-day bondage and captivity scenes in other cities. I even went to London once. I guess you can say I’ve been on a mission to experience the best bondage tops with the best playrooms and dungeons. I’ve been very fortunate to have done just that, spending sometimes 3 or 4 days locked up, always in some form of bondage, no way out.
These experiences have been (for the most part) incredibly successful. I’ve experienced new things, expanding my limits, or more accurately my horizons. I’ve met great guys. And I’ve learned a lot about myself.
To have such an experience there are some key things a sub/boy/slave/bottom needs to know and to do. These will not only ensure your own safety, but also make the experience special for both you and the Dom/Sir/Master/Top you give yourself to.
Be sure you really want to do this.
Being locked up in a hot Master’s dungeon is a common fantasy, and for most just that. You look at pics on the web, even some of those incredible (and mostly downright impossible) drawings, get hard, and think that’s what you want. Here’s a tip I call “Cum and Continue.” If you’re considering doing this and even discussing the possibility with a Sir and you’re getting all hot and bothered, go ahead and jerk off. Cum spectacularly. Clean yourself off and continue, if you can. Sure the sexual urge subsides, but if the urge to experience multi-day captivity has been wiped from your mind, then it’s not for you. If you go on a bondage vacation, you are going to spend a lot of time in bondage either without cumming or after cumming. If you can’t deal with that, then just be honest with yourself and understand it’s not for you.
Finding a match you can trust.
There are a lot of guys out there who would hurt you (and not in a good way) either because they don’t know what they are doing or because that’s what they really want to do. You have to be discerning. Here are some tips to help you evaluate your prospective Vacation Master:
1. Will he share pictures of himself where you can clearly see his face?
2. Does he have pics of his dungeon, gear, himself and/or boys in action? Both you and the Master may want an element of surprise and unknown, but in this age of digital cameras, he should be willing to let you see something, even whet your appetite a bit. Take a close look. Does it look like something you’ve seen elsewhere on the Web? Make sure they are genuine.
3. Will he give you references? Talk to other boys that have been there. How much experience does he have and how much experience does he expect you to have going in?
4. Will he get on the phone with you? DO NOT do this all via messaging on a leather site or via email.
5. Will he give you an address (that you can leave with someone)? Look it up on Google Maps and make sure it jibes with what they’ve told you. (Note that most will only give you an address when you’ve committed to go. But you should definitely get it several days before, not the day of.)
6. Does he insist you come immediately or is he willing to schedule? This isn’t something you want to rush into and perhaps he hasn’t done his own Cum and Continue test and is too wrapped up in his own fantasy.
7. And finally, can you carry on a conversation with him. You may want to remain in the roles you’ve established when you talk, but you should be able to have an open, pleasant, and clear conversation.
Next time: Tips on communication and preparation for the trip.














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Just two weeks away!nbsp;nbsp; 30,000 LGBT people set to invade Disneyland in Anaheim California!nbsp;
11th Annual GAY DAYS ANAHEIM
Following last year’s event which attracted nearly 30,000 gays and lesbians from California and all over the country, this year’s Gay Days Anaheim will be held Friday, October 3 through Sunday, October 5, 2008.

Gay Days Anaheim is a “mix-in” with straight park-goers. – Gays and lesbians are encouraged to wear red shirts to the parks to place one another and prove strong numbers. Official T-shirts are available at the official Gay Day at Disneyland Web site. - or be creative and designing your own!
Both days in the common will have gathering times for specific groups including gay youth (sponsored by The Trevor Project), families, women, singles, and bears. THERE IS SOMETHING FOR EVERYONE! There will be scavenger hunts and a group photo inside the park. A complete schedule is available at the web site.
The weekend opens Friday, October 3 with WONDERLAND, a dance party with DJ Ray Rhodes (Tiger Heat, KBIG 104), hosted by Los Angeles drag diva Momma. Alec Mapa (Ugly Betty) will host the VIP room. The event, benefitting The Trevor Project, runs from 9:30pm–1am at Ralph Brennan’s Jazz Kitchen located in Downtown Disney at the Disneyland Resort. Tickets are $15 at the door.
Saturday, will be Gay Day at Disneyland resort all day, which culminates with the famous KINGDOM party, the weekend’s signature dance party with music from internationally renowned DJ Kimberly S. There will be special performances by Erin Hamilton (”Dreamweaver”), Shoshana Bean, and Matt Zarley. The case will be held at the Family of Blues Anaheim in Downtown Disney from 9pm–1:30am. Tickets are $30 in advance, $40 at the door.
Sunday, October 6 will be Gay Day at Disney’s California Adventure.
Other events during the weekend include free movie screenings at the Gay Days Entertainment Center presented by here! (located within the Trillium Room of Disney’s Grand Californian Hotel). Chad Allen will acquaint his new film, “Ice Blues”, on Saturday night. Brad Rowe will be present his indie hit, “Shelter”, on Sunday night.

A special amount of Discounted hotel rooms and park tickets are still available and currently offered at Gay Days Anaheim.
*Gay Days Anaheim is NOT a Disney-sponsored event so Disney will not receive any information regarding this “unofficial” happening. However, you can rest assured , Disney welcomes the LGBT community and has lots of protection on hand to make sure we experience fun and are not in any way harassed by straight park-goers. It’s an awful and empowering event! For more information – GAY DAYS ANAHEIM OFFICIAL SITE nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;nbsp; Anaheim/Orange County Visitor & Convention Bureau
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